In this well-written and insightful article, he lists the five signs of addictive and unhealthy romantic behaviors found in women struggling with intimacy and sexual disorder.
1. Consistently using dating, seduction, sexual experiences and romance as a primary means of feeling loved and valuable. 2. A painful history of short, unsatisfying failed relationships where having sex or only feeling loved during sex is the primary bond 3. An inability to remain sober from drugs or alcohol addictions related to romantic intrigue, fear of being alone and related sexual behavior patterns fused with alcohol/drug abuse. 4. Acting out BDSM or other fetish behaviors in secret with casual or anonymous partners, while in a separate primary relationship 5. Using porn, masturbation and online sexual/romantic connections in lieu of a meaningful social and recreational life.
If you have found yourself engaging in behaviors that jeopardize your integrity, and leave you feeling confused and let down, you may be struggling with compulsive behaviors that you can learn to control. As a CSAT Candidate, I take a compassionate and firm stance to help those in crisis, working with where you you now find yourself. Together, we will integrate resources and support to allow you to work through this painful time.
For more information on how I treat compulsive and addictive behavioral addictions for individuals, couples and partners, please contact me at 206-489-3544.
